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Kantrowitz, Goldhamer, Graifman, Perlmutter & Carballo, P.C.

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Barry S. Kantrowitz, Esq.

Last Updated: Jun 12, 2026

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Have you ever found yourself questioning the motives behind a friend or family member’s divorce? As we have reported previously, marriages fall apart for a number of reasons, including finances, infidelity and general unhappiness.

Recently, a pair of researchers from Pennsylvania State University analyzed a survey given to about 200 divorced adult couples to discover why some marriages fall apart. Their findings were not shocking.

According to the researchers, the most common reasons people get divorced (along with the percentage of people who said the issue contributed) are:

Infidelity (21.6 percent)
Incompatibility (19.2 percent)
Substance abuse (10.6 percent)
“Growing apart” (9.6 percent)
Personality problems (9.1 percent)
Communication issues (8.7 percent)
Physical or mental abuse (5.8 percent)
“Loss of love” (4.3 percent)
Not meeting family obligations (3.4 percent)
Employment problems (3.4 percent)

Our attorneys have worked with clients who have suffered through all these problems.

Remember, you have no obligation to stay in a toxic marriage, especially when serious issues like infidelity and abuse are involved. While divorce is stressful, our attorneys are here to assist you and help you through the process, which often ends up being very rewarding.

How Can I Contact the Lawyers at KGG about Getting Divorced?

If you are thinking about getting a divorce, you need to get quality advice about issues including the division of marital assets and child custody for your case. The failure to do so could result in tremendous losses and additional stress.

Our lawyers have almost four decades of experience handling heated divorce cases—let our firm arrange your initial consultation. We will handle your case with compassion, as we understand the difficulties associated with divorcing a spouse.

Kantrowitz, Goldhamer, Graifman, Perlmutter & Carballo, P.C. – Divorce Attorneys

Source: http://nymag.com/thecut/2014/12/guess-the-top-reasons-people-divorce.html

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   Kenny Perlow 
 44 days ago
 
 
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   Aliza Ali 
 108 days ago
 
 
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   Jana Montero 
 111 days ago
 
 
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   Mike Sakmann 
 117 days ago
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I sought legal advice regarding an employment matter and had an excellent experience working with Sam Smith, Esq. at KGG Law. Sam was thorough, attentive, and took the time to listen carefully to my concerns before providing clear, thoughtful guidance. I appreciated the professionalism and care shown throughout the process, and I would confidently recommend KGG Law to anyone in need of legal assistance.
  
 
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   Liz Hecker 
 123 days ago
 
 
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   Brandy Miller 
 146 days ago
 
 
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   Mike Greenspan 
 159 days ago
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Kate Carballo is a dedicated, passionate, and creative attorney whom I had the pleasure to lecture with at a state trial lawyer's conference. Kate's lecture demonstrated how she uses her innovative and "out-of-the-box thinking" to achieve outstanding results for her injured clients. That Kate is certified by the Supreme Court of New Jersey as a civil trial attorney is a testament to her skills, experience and commitment to excellence.
  
 
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   Jonathan Sampson 
 166 days ago
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Was referred to KGG law by a friend and could not have asked for better legal representation. They walked me through every step of the process after my accident and began every call with “ how are you feeling” which was just one example of how much they care about their clients. They handled my case very efficiently, professionally and courteously. My attorney Kate Carballo was a rock star! So clearly experienced, she consistently made me feel at ease with the process. Highly recommend
  
 
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   Vinnie Kung 
 169 days ago
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. We had a great experience with the team at KGG Law. While it was a traumatic time for our family, they made it very easy for us and explained all of our options. They even performed due diligence to make sure that after our settlement, there would be no further issues which I think is even more important than the settlement itself. Thank you!

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