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NYC Brothers Admit Guilt in Divorce “Get” Kidnapping Scheme

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Last Updated: Jul 23, 2026

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In a bizarre story catching national attention, two Brooklyn brothers have pleaded guilty to conspiring to coerce a man into giving his wife a religious divorce or “get” as part of an eight-member gang led by a rabbi.

According to LoHud.com, Avrohom and Moshe Goldstein pleaded guilty in U.S. District Court in Trenton to crossing state lines to commit extortion earlier this month. The Goldsteins’ pleading comes after a personal trainer, David Hellman from Brooklyn, also plead guilty to similar charges last month.

The website reported that the men, led by Rabbi Martin Wolmark, 55, the principal of Yeshiva Shaarei Torah in Monsey, and Mendel Epstein, 68, a prominent ultra-Orthodox divorce mediator from Brooklyn, planned to force a man to give his wife a “get,” a document that must be presented by a husband to his wife to affect their divorce.

According to LoHud.com, the team of would-be kidnappers traveled to a warehouse in Edison on October 9, 2013, where they met with undercover FBI agents posing as the Jewish husband’s brother-in-law and other relatives.

Prosecutors said that the team arrived at the warehouse and were prepared to confine, restrain and threaten the husband.

According to LoHud.com, each brother that pleaded guilty faces a maximum prison sentence of 20 years and at least $250,000 in fines. Charges against the other individuals allegedly involved in the plot are pending.

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Source: http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/03/13/jewish-divorce-gang-rabbi/6361853/

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